Line out ...

Adam had his port removed this morning at St George's hospital in Tooting. We didn't realise it's more involved than a Hickman line removal, but apparently it is. The surgeon told Alison this … just to make us feel worse about putting Adam through the possibly unnecessarily procedure. Alison also got quizzed as to why it was coming out so soon. Ordinarily it's done as a last resort, when all other avenues have been explored, and all other treatments tried without success. Instead of four or five weeks, it's been only two-and-a-half since we first took Adam to Epsom with pain and fever. Anyway, following Alison's talk with the surgeon we're expecting to have a sore little boy for a few days.

As Adam's had no temperatures above 38° since Sunday he's actually been discharged from hospital all together. Tonight, fingers crossed, he'll be back in his own bed again. If that doesn't cheer him up nothing will. We'll be keeping a close on eye on him, and hoping that nothing untoward happens over the next few days.

We're due to fly out to America this Sunday. Keep everything crossed people, keep everything crossed ...

Closer ...

Another day the same as the previous. Adam is feeling better, looking better, eating better. Even his temperatures continue to get a little better. Let's not get carried away though. His disease is almost certainly progressing and we'll need to try a different therapy when we finally manage to get back to the US.

Tomorrow is line removal. "I'm going to have that angry medicine again" said Adam. He means Propofol. He is raging when he comes round from the anaesthetic; screaming and shouting. "Why don't they give me something different?" Good question, Adam. I don't know. Maybe they enjoy watching you tell me, no sorry yell at me, to get out of the room, to get out of the building, and to GO BACK HOME!

We've booked flights to Detroit. Seats were getting limited. At first I didn't want to book anything and then have fate conspire against us. However, on reflection I figured if Adam was unable to travel due to circumstances beyond my control then so be it, but I certainly didn't want it to be because his idiot father had left it too late to book anything. We do need him to remain well after the line removal, and not get any more fevers, which sometimes happens as removing the line triggers a reaction. It feels like we're coming round the bend and heading into the home straight. A few more days and we'll finally be on that plane. I don't ask for much, but please everything go to plan this time …

Provided line removal goes ahead without any problems Adam will be formally discharged to return home afterwards. If he's well enough he'll be donning his Ninja suit and hitting the streets for Halloween … so look out residents of Epsom, because Adam could be on the loose tomorrow night after all. Albeit under strict supervision.

Planning ...

Adam had another similar day yesterday; eating fairly well, home for lunch, moderate temperature during the afternoon. generally in good spirits although maybe a little more tired than on previous days.

Line removal is scheduled for tomorrow morning at St George's. There is no easy way to explain any of this to Adam, but nor is there anything to be gained by giving him unnecessary details, and certainly none of the brutal truths. We had a talk about it, he cried a little, we had a hug, we talked some more until he'd got his head around what he needed to get his head around. He's anticipating a couple of days of being uncomfortable, in the same way he was when his hickman line was removed. I nodded and gave him a pathetic "Well let's hope it won't be as bad this time." And he also knows he will need cannulas, and a new central line inserted once we get to America. I smiled and gave him a pathetic "Let's see what the doctors say once we get to America." Imagine trying to navigate an eight-year-old child through this nightmare, when all he wants to do is to be able to go out trick-or-treating on Halloween … which he might still get to. And be at home for his birthday … which he won't. What has my little boy ever done to deserve this shit?

Once Adam's line is out, and providing he remains clinically well, we need to figure out travel plans. Last time we flew with Virgin (who were absolutely brilliant) to Chicago and then drove 3-4 hours to Grand Rapids. But Virgin only fly to Chicago during peak season, and driving conditions are going to deteriorate as we get into the latter part of the year. So we need to figure out new travel plans. BA to Chicago remains an option, but it's crazy expensive especially if we want Adam to be as comfortable as possible on the 9 hour flight. Virgin to DC, or NYC, with an internal connecting flight would be a very long journey, plus there's the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy to contend with. Our only other option is a Delta/KLM flight to Detroit and to drive from there.

We'll figure something out. Because you just do. Because you have to.

Repeat ...

A repeat performance today. Adam's temperature peaked at 38.5° early evening (with tympanic thermometer). Other than that he's been well. He came home for lunch, and spent several hours playing on the PS2 with Jessica. He's playing catch-up; yesterday he was gaming with Ryan, and today he played with Jess for the first time in days. When we returned to the Marsden for Adam's afternoon antibiotics Jess came with us, and the two of them carried on playing until it was time for Adam to settle down for bed.

The fevers have definitely subsided, but now Adam's temperature is grumbling along; normal but higher than Adam's normal in the morning, and elevated further in the afternoon through early evening. Our plan has to be line removal, hopefully we will find out tomorrow when we can get it done. He's been better in himself again, and with his improved eating some of the weight he lost has started to go back on again.

Oh, and we had two bowel movements, so you can uncross your fingers now thanks.

Brighter ...

Adam's been brighter and more lively again today. He was even allowed home for lunch. Ordinarily with the sort of temperatures he's been recording he wouldn't be, but our circumstances now are not exactly ordinary. We're pleased with the way the doctors here have listened and discussed things with us. He enjoyed being back home, if only for a few short hours. For the first time in many days he got to play online with Ryan. It was just like old times; FaceTime and XBox Live.

He's been eating but still nothing like a normal amount for him. Slightly worryingly he's not emptied his bowels since Thursday evening. We've been quicker to dose him up with something to help things along this time, we do not want a repeat of the stomach pains of last weekend. That would really screw things up. So cross your fingers and hope for some toilet action tomorrow people.

Adam's temperature was elevated again this afternoon but not to the extent it has been, peaking at 38.4° with the tympanic thermometer. Things have definitely improved in the temperature department slowly over the last two or three days, but why and where they are ultimately heading I couldn't begin to guess. We shall see what tomorrow brings and take it from there.

We do now have a plan to get Adam to America, but we need him to remain clinically well and for any fevers to be controllable with paracetamol. We have requested a surgical slot for next week to get his portacath removed. Without a central line the risk associated with him flying will be far less and, all other things remaining as they are now, we should get permission from the doctors for him board a plane. Obviously not having intravenous access presents it's own issues, but we will deal with that problem once we're back in the US. Line removal would normally only be done as a last resort; once antibiotics, anti-fungals, and all other possibilities have been exhausted. However, with time not on our side decisive action is required. And if removing Adam's central line is what's required to get him on a plane, then removing Adam's central line is what we must do.

Oddness ...

Adam's been more active and alert again today so far. Jessica has an inset day, so she went in earlier and played the PS3 with him. He's eating bits still, nothing like normal portions, but it's bound to take time to build back up. His temperatures remain problematic. And also odd.

If I say they've been more elevated than the past couple of days you'd rightly think that was not a good sign. However, we've transferred to the Royal Marsden where they use tympanic (ear) thermometers. At Epsom they use (equally expensive) axillary (underarm) thermometers. Our own cheap-and-cheerful underarm digital thermometer, and tempadots that we've also used reliably in the past, have correlated fairly well with the temperatures recorded by the nurses at Epsom. We've picked up 39° and above, both before Adam was first admitted to hospital, and since. Now, however, we are seeing large differences between the 'official' temperatures and those we are recording ourselves. Yesterday, the nurses registered 39.9° and 39.3°. Adam was asymptomatic, wasn't burning up, feeling cold, shivering, or otherwise displaying any visual signs of fever. Our own thermometer gave a reading of 38.3°.

This afternoon after an official reading of 38.8° we got our own reading of 37.8°. Adam's pulse, which correlates very well with his temperature was 110, elevated but not to the extent we have seen previously. This morning we did an experiment. Tympanic 38.2°, underarm digital thermometer 36.6°, underarm tempadot 36.9°, and under-the-tongue tempadot 37.4°. We know from experience that the tempadot has a difference of around 0.5° depending where it's used. I tried the tympanic thermometer on myself; 36.9° in one ear, and 37.0° in the other! Nobody is suggesting that the tympanic thermometers are inaccurate, but as Adam's temperature rises there appears to be a bigger and bigger divergence between readings on different thermometers. Which means one cannot meaningfully make any comparison between the temperatures Adam is getting now, and those he was getting whilst he was in Epsom Hospital.

Adam is still having fevers, that much is true. It's just that we're no longer sure how high they are now … or alternatively how high they were before.

In other news the nurses gave Adam IV paracetamol in the night without Alison being aware, resulting in Adam having a hot flush and needing a fan on to cool him down. That won't be happening again, it's better he's left alone if he's sleeping peacefully regardless of the temperature. And this afternoon, despite us explaining everything yesterday, the nurse pushed his double-dose antibiotic instead of infusing it over half-an-hour. Adam duly responded by sneezing a few times and getting a constricted throat for the best part of the next hour. Alison was outside the room at the time discussing things with the doctor, and only became alerted to what was going on when she heard Adam sneezing. Honestly, you need eyes in the back of your head. It shouldn't have happened, but all of us who have been through this experience know these things do happen. And not just in the UK; there was one guy in Greifswald who used to come round and simply turn off any machine that was beeping … if you weren't on your guard your child's continuous hydration would suddenly come to an abrupt halt!

A little ...

Adam has been a little brighter today. He's smiled and laughed for the first time in two or three days, and has even delivered a few trademark putdowns - almost exclusively in my direction. "Stop trying to be a food critic" he said after I made some comment about my lunch. This morning it was nice to see him having a chat with his little mate Ryan, when for a while he's shown little interest in engaging with anybody or anything.

He's eaten a little breakfast, and a little lunch. And when I say a little I mean a little, but a little is better than nothing. We've started given him liquid nutrition via a syringe, he doesn't like it but he needs it. Since he was first admitted 12 days ago he's lost 2.5 kilos … and it shows.

Temperatures have been a little better, although perhaps that's just a case of wishful thinking. They are still up and down though, and this afternoon he spiked at around 39°.

Echocardiogram didn't show up anything abnormal (and Adam's heart function is still reasonably good). Ultrasound showed enlarged lymph nodes, as did chest CT. These are areas where we know Adam has disease. Nothing else was detected as being suspicious for either disease or fungal infection.

We took Adam to the Marsden just after midday. The ambulance arrived ten minutes after it was called, when normally it takes between one and two hours. We weren't even close to being ready, so got agreement to take him ourselves by car instead. That's what Adam himself had asked us to do in the first place anyway. This morning he was really unhappy at the prospect of sharing a room. As it turns out we're in the MIBG suite at the end of the ward, and Adam has a nice big room all to himself. Not sure how long it will last, these things generally depend on whose need is the greatest.

We've talked about options, and our consultant at the Marsden has emailed our doctor in the US. It remains our intention, and resolve, to get Adam back to the US for further therapy, but it might take a more radical approach to get him there. We don't have the luxury of being able to wait and wait for these fevers to recede … not least because we know they might not.

All-in-all a better day. A little better. A little better so far.

Transfer ...

Adam will be transferred by ambulance to the Royal Marsden Hospital tomorrow morning. They have a bed available and it's felt that would be the best place for him at this time.

He isn't happy at the thought of swapping his cubicle here on Casey Ward for a slot in a four-bed bay at the Marsden. Let's hope we don't end up sharing with any noisy kids or ignorant parents (most likely it'll be both) … because he will make his feelings clear. He can yell at whomever he likes as far as I'm concerned, it was a stupid idea to retain those 4-bed bays when they built the new children's unit. The person who designed it certainly wasn't thinking of the kids or their parents when they did so.

Same old ...

Restless night, more temperatures, not eating, feeling rubbish, aching legs, just wanting to go home. That pretty much about sums it all up. I used to write reams ... and now a single sentence will suffice.

Adam had an echocardiogram yesterday, chest CT and abdominal ultrasound this morning. We've had no official word yet on results.

No positives ...

Adam has been worse today than yesterday. More feverish, more tired, and eating next to nothing. There are no positives. I even refuse to get into any maybe this, maybe that talk. We will see what tomorrow brings.

Let's go back to the start ...

It wasn't the greatest night's sleep Adam has ever had; he registered temperatures of 38.6°, 39.0°, and 38.5°. It also wasn't the greatest night's sleep Alison has ever had; she spent most of it on Adam's bedroom floor. Do I regret taking him at home though? No, not for a second.

Peak temperatures aside, there is also a clear indication that the baseline is now up from below 37° to above it. So we are starting again on the frontline antibiotics that were stopped on Saturday after seven days. His best day, looking back, was Friday, and then he's been downhill since really, although the stomach pain definitely clouded the issue.

So we think it's a bacterial infection, despite having no positive blood cultures to provide any absolute diagnosis. We think, we don't know. So at the same time as starting antibiotics, Adam is being scheduled for ECG, abdominal ultrasound, chest x-ray and chest CT.

Typically when you want everything to go as smoothly as possible, it doesn't. Adam's new port wouldn't work this morning, and after several attempts to flush and draw back, it had to be removed and yet another one put in. Thankfully this time everything was fine. We're now waiting for antibiotics, blood transfusion, platelet transfusion, and more antibiotics.

Up, Down, Cry, Smile ...

It may have been a thoroughly shit nine days since we took Adam into Epsom Hospital but I can honestly say the level of care he's received has been exceptional. We've been fortunate that the consultants in charge, both last week and this, have looked at Adam, his long history, where things are at now disease-wise, the evolving situation, what we are trying to do in terms of getting him back to America, and have taken a very pragmatic approach to how he's been treated, both as a patient and as a person. We've been made to feel that Adam's care has been individual, and not simply prescriptive. The junior doctors, nurses, and community care team have all been great.

Today has typified these past days, one step forward, two steps back, glimmer of hope, silver lining, could go either way, and when all's done most probably we'll end up back at square one.

We're pinning the stomach pains on the combination of a very good eating day on Friday and the oramorph that Alison and I thought would be a good idea for him to have to help him remain comfortable whilst he was at home. Nice one Mum and Dad, that worked well didn't it?

"Remember that conversation we had about the doctor saying he thought there was still more poo up there?" said Adam after his second sit-down visit of the day "Well I don't think there's any more up there now."

The consultant thought Adam looked brighter this morning when he examined him during ward round. Indeed Adam was more chirpy than he has been for several days; we sat playing some random archery game on his iPad, each trying to better the highest score, and generally joking around.

The doc talked through the plan; that evening would be 48 hours since Adam had last registered a temperature above 38°. Provided he didn't spike again he thought it would be reasonable to discharge Adam to continue to be monitored at home. I asked him two questions; the optimistic one - "assuming Adam did not have another fever how soon could we look to get him on a plane?" "He would be certified fit to fly and realistically you could look to fly Thursday." And the pessimistic one - "supposing Adam does get another high temperature what then?" "I think we have no option but to treat for fungal sepsis, start ambisome and instigate the additional investigations."

Adam slept without his port accessed last night as it'd been in for over a week and needed to be replaced; a small victory for the little chap. As a consequence his bloods weren't taken until late morning. It doesn't happen often, but his newly inserted port started making horrible clicking noises whenever Adam moved. He hates that, and in truth it is a bit freaky. To the point where we did say we would have it removed, put some more emla on and get a different one put in. Not that we needed to, as it turned out.

A while later the nurse returned to say she needed to take more blood as Adam's haemoglobin had come back as 19.1. Yesterday it was (supposedly) 8.8. There was no way, thinking logically, that the pale little boy lying in the hospital bed opposite me had a normal Hb let alone 19.1, but these anomalies never fail to get the mind going in all sorts of directions.

After antibiotics we gathered Adam's things together ready to go home, and Alison got some fresh clothes for him to put on. The nurse came to do a final set of observations before we left. Temperature 38.1°. F&*@. F&*@. F&*@. F&*@. They notified the doctor and we waited for official confirmation of next steps.

We explained to Adam that this meant he couldn't go home. He sobbed. He even said, and I cannot remember the last time he said anything like this, "why is this happening to me?" Deep breaths. He then slept for a good hour-and-a-half. He hasn't done that since the middle of last week. After waking he suddenly exclaimed "My port is bleeding!" He was later to tell us "I told you it wasn't in properly." There was nothing else for it but to remove the port and clean up the bloody mess that was left behind.

When the consultant arrived he sat down and announced they had a new plan. An imperfect plan, but all things considered, it was the best they could come up with. Adam's CRP is the same, massively elevated but with no baseline as we hadn't measured it before Adam first became febrile. Effectively, what is attributable to the neuroblastoma? We simply don't know. The opinion of the microbiologist was that if there was a fungal infection he would have seen something in the seven days worth of blood cultures that were sat in his lab being encouraged to grow. As it was absolutely nothing had shown up and that made him almost certain this wasn't a case of fungal sepsis. Moreover, if it were, the antibiotics would have had no effect whatsoever, it would not have improved on its own, and most likely would now be worse having been left untreated for over a week. It didn't fit.

Having dropped two of the antibiotics at the weekend Adam has had a couple of higher temperatures, but no big spike of the extent when he was first admitted. So the new plan was (and is) to stop the remaining antibiotic and monitor Adam for the next 48 hours. If he spikes a higher fever than we've been seeing (say 38.5° to 39° plus) then they will restart with first line antibiotics as per a new admission. They will continue to culture so they have samples collected whilst Adam isn't on antibiotics (all but the first Sunday have been whilst being treated). If there is no increased temperature spike in the 48 hours then the assumption will be (provided the new cultures also show no growth, either bacterial or fungal) that the moderately elevated temperatures are disease (most likely), or treatment (less likely), related. Either way, if they are controllable with paracetamol we should be able to get Adam on a flight to America.

All somewhat unexpected, and it didn't stop there. Adam's true haemoglobin was 7.1, making as much of a mockery of yesterday's 8.8 as today's earlier 19.1. Platelets were 20. Meaning transfusions of both would be required. However, all things considered, and with mine and Alison's agreement, the doctor was happy for Adam to be released on home leave and return first thing tomorrow morning to be accessed and transfused.

Now that put a smile on Adam's face.

He's not been discharged, he has been released into our care; we are responsible for monitoring his temperature overnight and taking appropriate action should it rise higher than it has in the last couple of days. His room at the hospital is still there for us to take him straight back up to the ward if the need arises. There's no getting carried away. Adam still isn't eating, we have to get that back on track after the stomach problems. And most likely he is going to throw a fever and wind up back on first line antibiotics. But all things considered this evening has been a lot more pleasant than it had threatened to be for much of the afternoon.

Knife-edge ...

This morning Adam opened his bowels for the first time in 48 hours. What he left behind in the toilet could quite conceivably account for the stomach pains. Certainly he's not complained since, though he's not eaten much either. Fingers crossed.

Everything is in the balance and depends upon Adam's temperature remaining below 38°. We know his temperature is higher than normal, and becomes further elevated into late afternoon and early evening. Right now it's all on a knife-edge to be honest. One reading the wrong side of that magic number and we're facing a minimum of 48 hours anti-fungal medication, chest x-ray, ECG, ultrasound and CT.

Adam's been emotional today; he really wants to go sleep in his own bed, he doesn't want his port left accessed overnight, he doesn't want to go to America, he doesn't want to be away on his birthday, he doesn't want to spend any more time away from Jake and Jess.

Basically he's fed up … who can blame him. And we have no words to make any of it any better.

Wishing ...

Adam has been both slightly improved today, and just the same. His temperature increased during the afternoon, and as I left him settling down to sleep this evening it registered 37.7°. Not very different from the night before - 38.1° and 37.7° are the same, or at least the same pattern, to my mind. His stomach ache makes him uncomfortable and he cannot eat without making it worse. Consequently he's eaten very little once again today. It's not good.

In himself he has been more alert and a bit more active. He came home and joined in games with the rest of us; he tried to yesterday as well when we had family visitors but it was a real struggle then. Today he was able to participate more easily and more fully.

We have ditched oramorph. Adam had such a bad time with IV morphine in Germany we can't exclude it as being a contributory factor. I know he's on a lot lower dose orally now, but we started to give him it for the bone and joint pain, he eats the best he has for a week, and suddenly he has stomach pains and general malaise. We need to see the pain consultant at the Royal Marsden if we want Adam to be prescribed an alternative.

We agreed with the doctors yesterday that we would stop two of the antibiotics and just retain the third that was started on Wednesday, and is given as a once-a-day infusion.

If the fever returns they will start anti-fungal medications, chest x-rays and CT scans. But what Adam is experiencing now in terms of fever could so easily be neuroblastoma. The stomach ache? Who knows. It only started on Friday night, pretty much as Adam had gotten over the worst of all the other various aches and pains he's had. If it wasn't for that we'd have been discussing whether they'd allow us to take Adam to America with paracetamol to ensure his temperature remained fully under control.

As it is, we just need our little boy to catch a break, instead of lurching from one thing to another.

All Adam wants to do is come home to sleep in his own bed.

Frustration ...

Today has been a rubbish day. Never second guess where things are going, or what will happen next. This is the lesson, repeated so many times, but never it seems learnt. After yesterday's successful visit home, Adam complained of abdominal pain in the car back to the hospital. We thought little of it. Today he's had a painful stomach ache that has stopped him from eating, interfered with his drinking, and made him feel, and look, generally unwell. He's wanted to do nothing, he's done nothing. And to top everything off his temperature, having remained below 38° for the last 50 hours, has just risen to 38.1°.

I can't write any more.

Visit Home ...

One of the brighter aspects of this week, and let's face it there haven't been many, has been the paediatric oncologist at Epsom Hospital also being the duty consultant up on the ward. The situation is not altogether straightforward, with Adam being in Epsom under their shared care arrangement with the Royal Marsden, who are looking after Adam whilst he's a patient of Helen De Vos Children's Hospital in Michigan, USA, participating in a Phase I NMTRC clinical trial. But things have worked out ok, the communication has been good. We've listened and been listened to, and we've made collective decisions we all understand and are (albeit perhaps to greater or lesser extents) comfortable with.

There has been no further investigations, no x-rays or ultrasounds or CT scans. The spike in temperature yesterday has been noted, but put in context that it wasn't repeated and Adam's charts clearly demonstrate the dampening that has taken place. Although his temperatures are still above where they would normally be, there are no longer the clear peaks and troughs of earlier in the week.

Adam reaffirmed his desire to go home, to spend some time with Jake and Jess. In the context of where things are at, what we are planning, what we face, such desires cannot be ignored. So we talked it through with the consultant here, who in turn talked it through with Adam's consultant at the Royal Marsden, and they agreed he could spend a few hours at home after his antibiotics at 2pm.

We were not sure how Adam would be at home; I mean he clearly isn't well. The first thing he did, which seemed a little odd to me, was to go upstairs and climb up on to his cabin bed. There we thought he might decide to stay until we took him back to the hospital. But instead he came downstairs, played a couple of board games (at his own request), and ate the best meal he's had all week. We returned to hospital around half-past eight so Adam could settle down for the night. Our hope is that we'll be able to have a repeat tomorrow, but maybe get them to bring the antibiotics forward a little as well so we can get away sooner. I might be in danger of getting ahead of myself though, so I'll stop there.

Reflecting a little on this past week, it is now the longest Adam has been hospital with fevers since he was first diagnosed. I suppose that's something, isn't it? No, you're right. It's not really, it's totally irrelevant.

Treading water ...

And so it continues.

Adam had a reasonable day yesterday, but around 4pm he became tired and his temperature rose to 38.8°. Whether the temperature came on as he got tired, or the tiredness was a result of the temperature is anybody's guess. He had a little sleep and was fine for the rest of the evening. His CRP has now plateaued at 60 times above the normal level. Technically he's still not well enough to leave the hospital. Even I don't think he's well enough, under normal circumstances, to leave the hospital. That solitary fever of yesterday ought to escalate matters to the next stage; more investigations - chest x-ray, abdominal ultrasound. Primarily looking for other causes of Adam's condition such as fungal infection. However, we need to get Adam back to Grand Rapids so we can re-evaluate him properly and look at trying something different given the current combination is (almost) certainly not working to hold back his disease. We don't want to be hanging around looking for a cause that doesn't exist only to end up with his disease flaring up and the high fevers starting over … if indeed they were caused by neuroblastoma in the first place.

And so it continues.

With everything hanging in the balance.

Hope …

Adam's fever continued to recede overnight and he hasn't required any paracetamol since late yesterday afternoon. It's clearly good news, but no cause for euphoria and we're not getting carried away. His ANC has further improved following a second dose of GCSF, and his CRP has dropped a little although it remains highly elevated. Our sole objective remains the same; to get him well enough to board a plane back to America. Adam's objectives are (1) to have his port de-accessed so he can lie on his left side, and (2) to spend some time at home. We've relayed his objectives to the doctors as well, because they are important. He knows we are taking him back off to America at the first available opportunity and he needs to know that we understand his needs too, and try as much as possible to accommodate them.

Various aches and pains remain but those he had on Sunday when he was admitted, right shoulder and left leg, are all but gone. His right leg and the top of his head are giving him the most trouble now. I really don't know what's going on. Pains moving around and resolving themselves would be atypical of neuroblastoma, but I've heard such wide and varied accounts of what this disease is capable of that we can't rule it out. The fever and CRP, despite responding to antibiotics, could easily be neuroblastoma. To provide an unpleasant perspective on our current situation; when Adam was diagnosed he presented with swollen lymph node and neck pain. His CRP level was highly elevated, but initially improved with antibiotics, thus supporting the incorrect hypothesis that his problems were the result of an infection. As I've said many times; before Adam became ill he was apparently well, so the fact he appeared to be well last week means nothing.

So we continue to watch, we continue to wait, and we continue to hope.

Ryan ...

As ever with this bastard disease what a difference a day makes. On Tuesday everything was moving forward well for our little mate Ryan, who's been in Tübingen since the start of September undergoing haplo-indentical transplantation. Yesterday we heard that Ryan's own T-cells have begun taking over the graft he received from his Mum, and there's now a distinct possibility that his body will reject the transplant completely. You couldn't meet a nicer child than Ryan, this would be so so unfair on him to have to go through it all again; although if that does turn out to be the case I have no doubt his infectious, cheeky, smile won't be gone for very long! Twice Ryan has been in remission, and twice his disease has returned. Now in remission for a third time, haplo-transplant gives him a chance to be rid on neuroblastoma for good. And if anybody deserves that chance it's Ryan. We'll be thinking of him every day as we always do, wishing his T-cells ill and hoping the Doctors in Germany can get things back on track. Their plan, which has already started, is to give regular additional infusions of Julie's T-cells to try and overpower Ryan's own T-cell response; but there's no overnight fix, and at this stage nobody can predict the outcome. This is Ryan's Appeal Page.

And Waiting ...

Nothing very new to report. Adam's up and down (with paracetamol) fevers persist, and his aches (he actually doesn't refer to them as pains) remain. Any change in the fevers can be neatly summed up by the fact he's having three doses of paracetamol in 24 hours at the moment, instead of the four he was needing previously. His aching left leg has improved, both according to Adam, and as evidenced by the amount of freedom of movement he has in it now (albeit whilst still lying in his hospital bed). However, he's now begun complaining that the ache has transferred to the right leg. I know hypochondria runs in the family, but sadly he's not faking it. His shoulder problem now appears to be completely resolved, but in addition to the leg aches, he has new areas that are either tender to touch, or 'feel like carpet burns' when rubbed.

His ANC (Absolute Neutrophil Count) was just 0.5 yesterday so he received a dose of GCSF; this morning it had come up to 1.6. Haemoglobin and Platelet counts are very suppressed, but stable. After speaking to our US oncologist we are holding off starting cytarabine, and are going to review the situation later in the week. As per NHS fever protocol they are going to add a second broad-spectrum antibiotic into Adam's schedule, starting today. Neither his blood cultures, nor his urine specimen, have tested positive for any infections.

And so we continue to watch, and wait.

For those of you who saw my earlier comment about Oscar, I'm very happy to report that he's made tremendous progress over the past couple of days and is now able to sit up in bed unaided. Whilst he didn't end up in Philadelphia having the treatment he was intended to have, as things transpired he could not have been in a better place than CHOP to be treated for such a rare and dangerous condition, one for which I don't even think there's any clearly recognised treatment.

Waiting …

Nothing remarkable has changed since yesterday. Adam is still having fevers, still has leg pain, is still on antibiotics. We're in a holding pattern, albeit we have a firm objective now that is to get Adam on a plane and on his way to America at the first available opportunity. We're looking to add oramorph to our drugs arsenal in the hope that it will bring Adam more mobility, and control the pain that comes with movement. That is the second obstacle to overcome in order to get to America; the first, and more problematic issue, is his fevers. Whilst easily controlled with paracetamol they remain regular and high. Coupled with a CRP that was today further increased to nearer 400, that means nobody is going to be willing to let us to take him out of hospital, let alone put him on a long-haul flight across the Atlantic.

If anything I'd say Adam has appeared slightly better today, but it's hard to judge. His fevers so far have been a little farther apart, and a little less severe. The movement in his leg is a little better and he even stood up for about thirty seconds and willingly sat himself in a chair whilst Alison replaced his bed sheets. But we're talking fractional improvements at best, rather than any dramatic leaps forward. He's quite well in himself, although perhaps a little more fragile emotionally than normal. We've spent a good few hours today playing Toy Story on the PS3 with plenty of laughter and plenty of abusive taunts relating to my gaming ability.

The bottom line is we still have no real idea as to the cause of either the fevers or the leg pain. Both, either, or neither, could have neuroblastoma as their source. However, his tumour markers in themselves are sufficient for us to make the decision to return to America sooner than was planned.

Live and learn. I should never have contented myself with urine tests that took 10 days to report results. I did think about investigating how we could expedite things by sending the samples elsewhere, having the tests conducted privately, etc. But I didn't pursue it and I should have done. As it is, there's no use moaning about the consequences now.

Fear ...

Adam hasn't improved any. His fever comes, goes with paracetamol, then comes again. His leg still brings extreme pain when moved, his shoulder has allegedly (according to Adam) got worse again, though I'm not entirely convinced about that. Nothing has shown up yet in either blood or urine samples, but he didn't produce the required stool sample until earlier this morning. I'm not expecting anything positive to show up, this feels like neuroblastoma's doing to me. Of course I hope I'm wrong. Nothing would make me happier than to be wrong and all this end up being a combination of infection plus side-effects of sorafenib. But I'm not wrong.

This morning we got Adam's most recent urine results measuring his catecholamine levels, a tumour marker for neuroblastoma. The levels have gone up a lot, and they were already way above the normal levels. I say most recent, the sample was from October 4th so we can only hypothesise where they're at now. All samples from South West London are sent to St Helier for analysis, and there is a 10-day turnaround. At the hospitals we've been to in Germany and the US results are obtained the same day. Don't ask me why it's deemed acceptable for it to take more than a week to process samples over here, I'd only be guessing. His LDH, a blood serum tumour marker, is also the highest it's been since we started tracking it over a year ago; it's way too high.

We need to figure out a plan. And it really feels like we need to do it quickly. At the moment getting Adam fit enough, through a combination of paracetamol and pain relief, to put him on the first available flight to the US is looking like our best option.

Thursday I was wrestling with Adam in our front-room and he was throwing me on to the sofas. Friday he was out in the garden playing football with Jake. In reality just a few days ago, and yet in my mind it seems like light-years ago now …

Morning ...

Diarrhoea ...

And thus ends my trio of updates for today. After a perfectly normal (and quite reassuring given he'd not been at all yesterday) visit to the toilet, Adam followed up a couple of hours later with a bout of diarrhoea. In the event of a repeat we now have a commode and sample pot stationed in our bathroom to collect yet another something for the lab to test. Adam was displeased at the prospect of having to use the commode. "Sitting on the toilet is uncomfortable enough" he said, "My leg is going to hurt even more having to sit on that." "You said you'd make things as comfortable as possible for me whilst I was in hospital. Well I can tell you THAT ain't workin' for me."

I've since returned home after a quick changeover with Alison. The battle of the commode is hers to fight now. Adam is asleep, having had his second dose of antibiotic without incident. His fever returned late afternoon, but another dose of paracetamol quickly brought it back under control again. Given that I will be working tomorrow, and Alison will therefore be at the hospital all day, I did a ten hour shift today. Lying on the portable bed waiting for her to arrive I thought of all the times over the past three years we've been in and out of these cubicles on Casey Ward. Countless times. Different day, different cubicle, same old shit. And if you offered us more of the same for the next three years we'd accept it without so much as a momentary hesitation.

So we wait to see what tomorrow brings; in terms of fever, CRP, and now diarrhoea. Adam is due to begin the next cycle of treatment on Tuesday; that means four days of cytarabine, the chemo drug that we blamed for his fevers previously. Tomorrow we'll have to figure out what to do about that now as well.

CRP ...

Adam's CRP, a generic marker of infection/inflammation is 211. A normal level is less than 5. The elevation could be the result of infection, or tissue damage. More sinisterly, we also know CRP can be elevated by neuroblastoma, which could also be the underlying cause of the fever. At present we simply don't know. We assumed the last febrile episode was a result of cytarabine, but we don't have a similarly convenient explanation this time around.

He's been started on teicoplanin for prophylaxis against a possible gram-positive bacterial line infection, and ceftazidime as a more broad spectrum antibiotic. Having experienced allergic reactions to tazocin and meropenem in the past, options are more limited than would otherwise be the case. When he received the first dose of ceftazidime last time he sneezed a few times and then complained that his throat felt a bit swollen. This time the same thing happened. Although they were on standby with piriton in case his airways became further restricted it wasn't necessary. They'll just be extra cautious now with his next dose at 11pm this evening.

His temperature has remained normal since paracetamol earlier, and he's currently having a Yu-Gi-Oh! duel with his sister … now they've finished arguing over which of them various special cards belong to.

Fever ...

Adam is back in Epsom Hospital with fever and severe pain in his left leg. We were supposed to be enjoying a weekend away together at the caravan as Jake wasn't playing football. So much for that idea. On Friday Adam started complaining of pain in his right shoulder, he couldn't lift his arm at all. Then yesterday he couldn't move his left leg without wincing with pain. He certainly couldn't stand on it. Muscular, joint, and bone pain are side-effects of the sorafenib that Adam is on; he had various aches and pains during the first cycle but nothing quite as severe or debilitating as this. The location of these latest two problem areas exacerbates matters. The fear, of course, is that this is neuroblastoma, not sorafenib. Adam has lots of disease in his pelvis and hip area. His shoulder problems began to resolve yesterday, and by this morning he only experiences pain if he fully extends his arm above his head. His leg hasn't yet begun to improve.

We decided last night to pack up and come back home as nobody was having much fun. We'd tried to go out for lunch, but Adam couldn't get out of the car, couldn't get comfortable sitting; all we succeeded in doing was having an aborted trip out that left Adam upset and Jake and Jessica feeling let down. General family disharmony ensued.

This morning Adam woke early, though in good spirits. However, his temperature quickly began to rise and by mid-morning it was clear we were heading for a few days back up on Casey Ward. And so here we are, waiting for Adam's blood results to see if they provide any clue as to the source of this latest episode. Adam lies in the bed opposite me, the fan blowing air over him now the paracetamol has taken effect and he's gone from feeling cold (but having a fever) to feeling hot (but having a normal temperature).

This world in which we live can be a cruel world indeed. Last weekend, little Oscar travelled from Dublin to Philadelphia to start the immunotherapy treatment that would give him the best chance of being rid of neuroblastoma for good. This weekend he lies in the intensive care unit at Children's Hospital of Philadelphia fighting for his life, all thoughts of immunotherapy long since gone. Positive thoughts go out to Oscar and his family. You can read his Mum's heart-wrenching account of the past week here - It all goes wrong in Philadelphia.